Patti Stanger created an overnight Bravo sensation as the star of her own reality series <em>The Millionaire Matchmaker</em>. As a matchmaker, she has been in the enviable position of having men all over the country open up and reveal what made them want to settle down—and what sent them running. <P>To every single woman sitting home alone wondering, “Where are all the good men, and why isn't a gorgeous one standing shirtless in my kitchen mixing me up a pomegranate mojito?” she says, “I hate to tell you this girlfriend, but it's your own fault.” But don't worry, with her straightforward attitude, Patti doles out her best tried-and-true advice to help women of all ages get out of their own way and get hitched. <P>Using her infectious confidence and bravado, Patti promises that if you follow her advice and commit to her program, you'll have found Mr. Perfect in less than a year.