<DIV><p>Described as "a profound meditation on love and death, madness and truth, judgment and compassion," <I>Romulus, My Father</I> became an instant classic. Now, Raimond Gaita reflects on the book, the film, the philosophies that underpinned his father's relationship to the world, and, most movingly, the presence and absence of his mother.</p><BR></DIV>