How to meet and marry a man in Seattle?<P>There are all the usual ways, of course, but here's how Janine Hartman and Meg Remington did it.<P><b>Janine:</b> My grandfather Hartman <I>arranged</i> a husband for me! Zach Thomas, the intended groom, was just as outraged as I was. But Gramps insisted we'd be "a perfect match." First comes marriage, according to him.<P><b>Meg:</b> My teenage daughter, Lindsey, had the nerve to place a personal ad on my behalf?<P>Wanted: Perfect Partner.<P>Worse, Steve Conlan, who answered the ad, was perfect, according to her.<P>Does Grandfather know best? Did a teenage matchmaker get it right? You decide!