<p><b>1. Stupid Secrets</b><br> Withholding important information for fear of rejection</p> <p><b>2. Stupid Egotism</b><br> Asking not what you can do for the relationship but only what the relationship can do for you</p> <p><b>3. Stupid Pettiness</b><br> Making a big deal out of the small stuff</p> <p><b>4. Stupid Power</b><br> Always trying to be in control</p> <p><b>5. Stupid Priorities</b><br> Consuming all your time and energies with work, hobbies, errands, and chores instead of focusing on your relationship</p> <p><b>6. Stupid Happiness</b><br> Seeking stimulation and assurance from all the wrong places to satisfy the immature need to feel good</p> <p><b>7. Stupid Excuses</b><br> Not being accountable for bad behavior</p> <p><b>8. Stupid Liaisons</b><br> Not letting go of negative attachments to friends and relatives who are damaging to your relationship</p> <p><b>9. Stupid Mismatch</b><br> Not knowing when to leave and cut your losses</p> <p><b>10. Stupid Breakups</b><br> Disconnection for all the wrong reasons</p>