<B><I>What if</I></B> there is a <I>You</I> that has never seen the light of day, has never got to say, "Hey, what about me?" <B><I>What if</I></B> there is a You that you have never even met and certainly never permitted to just be, without fear of judgment or condemnation? <B><I>What if</I></B> you live your life on the sidelines in constant fear of failing to please those who forever seem to stand in judgment of you and your life? <B><I>What if</I></B> you discovered that you had settled for what life has served up instead of what you really wanted and needed? <B><I>What if</I></B> you really think and feel things you have never allowed to come out, and certainly never acted on? <B><I>What if</I></B> your marriage is not at all what you really emotionally want and need, but you silently stay the course anyway, selling out your hope to be happy? <B><I>What if</I></B> you are allowing days to turn into weeks and weeks to turn into months and months to turn into years, all adding up to a lifetime of being what some nameless, faceless world has assigned you to be? If any of these <I>"What ifs"</I> are true in your life, then we need to talk, and through these pages, we will. First, I have some bad news, and I have some good news. The bad news is <I>you</I> are making the choices that have put you in this life circumstance; the good news is <I>you</I> are making the choices that have put you in this life circumstance. Now is the time to make the biggest choice of your life. Through <I>Self Matters,</I> I will help you do just that. -- Phil McGraw