For every woman who wants to know what her man is thinking. <P> Internationally syndicated radio superhost and columnist, controversial psycho-therapist, and author of the break-out <I>New York Times</I> bestsellers <I>How Could You Do That?!</I> and <I>Ten Stupid Things Women Do to Mess Up Their Lives,</I> Dr. Laura Schlessinger is back with <I>Ten Stupid Things Men Do to Mess Up Their Lives.</I> <P> In ten vital, compelling chapters, Dr. Laura speaks her mind on:<OL Type ="1" Start="1"> <B><LI> Stupid Chivalry</B><BR> By getting involved with the wrong woman (weak, flaky, damaged, needy, desperate, stupid, untrustworthy, immature, etc.) you think that your love will save/transform her. <P><B><LI>Stupid Independence </B><BR> Unwilling to admit "need" for bonding and intimacy, you hide in excesses of work, play, drink, drugs, porn, and meaningless sex. <P><B><LI>Stupid Ambition </B><BR> Unable to comfortably and proudly accept your inherent importance to society and family as husband and father, you bow to the false idols of money, toys, power, and status. <P><B><LI>Stupid Strength </B><BR>Uncomfortable with feeling weak, vulnerable, useless, powerless, or rejected, you use intimidation, force, or passive-aggressiveness to regain control.<P><B><LI>Stupid Sex </B><BR>Taking an attraction, opportunity, or erection as a "sign," you measure your masculinity and power by sexual conquests, infidelities, and orgasms.<P><B><LI>Stupid Matrimony </B><BR>Lacking a mature sense of the purpose, meaning, or value of marriage, you realize too late you&#39;ve gone down the aisle with the wrong woman for the wrong reasons and feel helpless to "fix it." <P><B><LI>Stupid Husbanding</B><BR>Thinking that marriage is the honorable discharge from loving courtship, you continue to live as though you were single and your "mommy-wife" will take care of everything else. <P><B><LI>Stupid Parenting</B><BR>Believing that only women/mothers nurture children, you withdraw from hands-on parenting to assert your masculine importance, missing out on the true "soul food" of a child&#39;s hug. <P><B><LI> Stupid Boyishness</B><BR>Having not yet worked out a comfortable emotional and social understanding with your mother, you form relationships with women that become geared to avenge, resolve, or protect you from your ties to Mommy.<P><B><LI> Stupid Machismo</B> <BR>Understanding the true and meaningful difference between being male and a man, you can become a man.</OL>