After 14 years of marriage and two children, Heather Cram was shocked to find that her husband was gay. Confused, angry, and frightened, she began a multi-year journey of self discovery that, although difficult and sorrowful, led her to realize one key thing: she needed to help other women in the same situation. In her book, You're What?! Survival Strategies for the Straight Spouse, Heather and three other straight spouses deal with their situation in a constructive, light hearted manner that will have you crying on one page and cheering on the next. If someone you know may be romantically involved with a gay man . . . buy her this book!