<p> This singular guide presents the straightforward facts on affairs, as well as advice to affairees and spouses on how to cope with them. </p> <p> Since 60% of marriages are affected by affairs, you should know the facts: </p> <ul> <li>Women under 30 are as likely as men to have an affair.</li> <li>Love affairs are different from sex affairs.</li> <li>Most affairs last between and three years, but the consequences can last a lifetime.</li> <li>Fewer than 10% of affairees divorce their spouses then marry their lover.</li> <li>Over 75% of those who do divorce and marry their lover divorce again.</li> <li>Nearly 80% of those who divorce during an affair are sorry later.</li> <li>Most marriages survive affairs. If you want to stay married, you can.</li> <li>Prevention works. You can -- and should -- affair-proof your marriage right now.</li> </ul>