<P><I>Honey, Baby, Sweetums, Pookie</I> . . . Who knew those sweet, androgynous pet names are the first step toward a nonexistent sex life? And all those 'personal grooming' activities you used to hide . . . Believe it or not, sharing them with your partner puts you on the fast track toward killing a healthy sexual relationship. </P><P><I>Stop Calling Him Honey and Start Having Sex</I> is a smart, sassy, and honest guide for women of all ages, and looks at the root causes of sexual boredom in a revolutionary way. Authors Maggie Arana and Julienne Davis have discovered that it's the everyday things we say and do that sabotage sexual chemistry<B>. </B>They dare to pull back the sheets to examine the subtle yet powerful ways we're dulling our desire for our partners, while giving simple and practical<B> </B>solutions to rekindle the fire in our relationships.</P><P>This non-therapy-speak guide explains why date nights and sex in different locations are only Band-Aid solutions: The truth is, if you don't feel like having sex anymore, forcing yourselves to do it on the kitchen table is <I>not </I>going to fix the problem<B>!</B> In<I> Stop Calling Him Honey and Start Having Sex</I>, you'll also learn:</P><P> </P><UL type=disc><LI>Why arguing is an important factor in bringing couples closer together <LI>Why it is critical to maintain a sense of individuality <LI>How sexuality doesn't hinge on having the perfect body but rather on how a woman feels about herself and how she projects those feelings to her partner</LI></UL><P> </P><P>If your sex life reads more like a service manual than a romance novel, stop calling him 'honey' and start rekindling the flame of desire!</P><P> </P>