Marc Sedaka stood by while he and his wife endured endlessrounds of drug therapies, sixteen artificial inseminations, tenin-vitro fertilizations, three miscarriages, and, finally, a gestationalsurrogate (“womb for rent”) who carried their twin girls to term.He was as supportive and loving as he could be, but he really wishedhe'd had a book like <em>What He Can Expect When She's Not Expecting</em>during the process. Most books about dealing with infertility aregeared toward women, leaving the man to his own devices when itcomes to comfort and encouragement (never a good idea).<br /><br />With the help of his own infertility doctor, Sedaka providesstraightforward guy-friendly advice on situations such as:<ul> <li> What questions you should ask at the consultations. </li> <li> How to help rather than annoy. </li> <li> What kinds of tests you and your wife should expect. </li> <li> How to console a wife who appears inconsolable. </li> <li> How to enjoy procreation sex.</li></ul>Sedaka's accessible, empathetic voice, combined with the fact thathe experienced everything he writes about, makes this a must-havebook for any infertile couple.