<B>This inspirational parenting guide offers proactive and positive steps to raising respectful, engaged, and grateful children.</B><P>In an effort to raise children with a healthy view of themselves, parents often focus on <I>self-esteem </I>rather than <I>self-respect. </I>And author Jill Rigby says there’s a big difference. It’s the difference between self-centered and others-centered children, the difference between performance-driven and purpose-focused teenagers.<P> <P><I>Raising Respectful Children in a Disrespectful World</I> examines three different styles of parenting—parent-centered, child-centered, and character-centered<I>. </I>Parent-centered parents are more concerned with their own agenda than their child’s best interest. Child-centered parents are more concerned with their child’s approval than their child’s well-being. Character-centered parents are more concerned with their child’s character than their child’s comfort. Drawing a distinction between performance and purpose, this book maintains that rather than focusing on what you want your child to <I>do, </I>you ask what you want your child to <I>become. </I>Finally, Rigby calls for parents to discipline (teach) their children rather than punish them.<P> <P>With wisdom and insight, Jill Rigby shares age-appropriate ways to set boundaries with children without building walls of separation. Whether you’re parenting tots or teens, <I>Raising Respectful Children in a Disrespectful World </I>offers valuable advice for cultivating a house of respect.