There comes a point in a girl's life when she figures it all out. For some, this awakening occurs when she is young. For others, learning life's little lessons is literally like beating a dead horse, and upon her deathbed, the light bulb clicks. Regardless of when that "ah ha" happens, it is the most invigorating moment of realization. The author writes that she always felt as if she were constantly playing games in her relationships or desperately missing something, but then discovered from the Bitch series books a pivotal moment where all the pieces actually fit. It was the moment when she realized that her feeling of confidence doesn't just last a day, or a week, or till she finds the next empty relationship. Monica is the quintessential single woman who knows how men operate and how women need to adapt to that crazy game called dating.