The best-selling authors of <i>Men Who  Can't Love</i> and <i>What Smart Women  Know</i> get to the heart of the real  relationship issue of the nineties for both men and  women -- the conflict between commitment and freedom.  Available for the first time in paperback, this  follow-up to the phenomenally successful  <i>Men Who Can't Love</i> tackles the issue of  commitmentphobia, that persistent obstacle to  truly satisfying contemporary relationships. Authors  Steven Carter and Julia Sokol explore why modern  men and women are torn between the desire for  intimacy and the equally intense need for  independence. Drawing on numerous interviews and real-life  scenarios, and written with humor, insight, and  the kind of wisdom gained by personal experience,  <i>He's Scared</i>, <i>She's  Scared</i> offers guidance for all of us who want  genuine, sustained intimacy with our romantic  partners.